There’s a saying: Go big, or go home. Maybe you’ve heard it. (If not, go back to the beginning of this paragraph and begin again, only more slowly.) This is one of those things often said by people (such as coaches) who have a vested stake in the performance of someone else, but no actual responsibility if they fail. Spectators who encourage gamblers to go “all-in” with their life savings are another example.
I have always considered that saying to be a false dichotomy. No matter how big I choose to go, I have every intention of going home afterwards. Perhaps I’m just a wimp (Disclaimer: Yeah, pretty much), but going big enough to threaten my ability to go home (skydiving, crime wave, going all-in with my home on a pair of deuces) is not for me.
Hold that thought for a moment.